Back in September, I was verbally told I’m banned from my daughter’s school campus – can’t go to senior night, graduation, or anything else. They said I’d get a certified letter by the 20th, but I still haven’t gotten anything in writing. I tried talking to the principal, but he just said he has ‘proof’ of things I supposedly did without actually giving any details. I’m struggling to find a local education lawyer to help. Has anyone been through something like this, or know what my next steps could be?
If they didn’t follow up with a written notice, you could reach out to the superintendent or school district to ask for clarity. Sometimes they can review these things.
Chance said:
If they didn’t follow up with a written notice, you could reach out to the superintendent or school district to ask for clarity. Sometimes they can review these things.
That’s probably my next step. The principal isn’t giving any info, so maybe the district will.
Chance said:
If they didn’t follow up with a written notice, you could reach out to the superintendent or school district to ask for clarity. Sometimes they can review these things.
Good call. Going to the district might put more pressure on them to explain why they banned you.
If they promised a written letter and didn’t send it, that might be worth bringing up. Maybe consider writing a demand letter to request an official response?
Brett said:
If they promised a written letter and didn’t send it, that might be worth bringing up. Maybe consider writing a demand letter to request an official response?
Good idea. They did say it’d be sent but nothing came. I’ll consider writing to them formally.
Brett said:
If they promised a written letter and didn’t send it, that might be worth bringing up. Maybe consider writing a demand letter to request an official response?
You can find demand letter templates online if it helps. Just make sure to ask for their ‘proof’ in the letter, too.
If you have witnesses or people who can back up your side, get their statements in writing. That could help you out if you take it up with the district.
Ren said:
If you have witnesses or people who can back up your side, get their statements in writing. That could help you out if you take it up with the district.
I have witnesses, including my husband. I’ll start gathering their statements. Thanks for the tip!
You could try finding a lawyer in another area who’s willing to consult remotely. Some education lawyers work across state lines.
Dara said:
You could try finding a lawyer in another area who’s willing to consult remotely. Some education lawyers work across state lines.
That’s a good suggestion. Might be easier than trying to find someone local. Thanks!
If the principal claims they have proof, you have a right to ask to see it. A formal letter might push them to share what they have.
Peyton said:
If the principal claims they have proof, you have a right to ask to see it. A formal letter might push them to share what they have.
Exactly – I’d really like to see this ‘proof’ they keep mentioning. I’ll definitely ask for it.
Peyton said:
If the principal claims they have proof, you have a right to ask to see it. A formal letter might push them to share what they have.
If they refuse to show you, that’s a red flag. Keep pressing them if they don’t give you anything.