I’m a parent of a TK student, and I’m concerned about some things happening in the classroom. The teacher put up a poster titled ‘We Are Free to Be’ that includes complex ideas about gender identity. The teacher also told the class that they have ‘two versions of themselves, one as a boy and one as a girl.’ Since gender identity isn’t part of the TK curriculum, I’m wondering if this might violate any California educational laws or policies. The school responded by saying the poster is only decoration meant to promote inclusivity, but I’ve heard other parents mention their kids felt confused. I decided to pull my child out of the school, but I’d like to hear if anyone has dealt with a similar situation or has advice on how to proceed.
Wow, that’s a lot for TK students. Did the school offer any more explanation beyond inclusivity?
Blair said:
Wow, that’s a lot for TK students. Did the school offer any more explanation beyond inclusivity?
Not really. They just emphasized that it wasn’t being taught as part of the curriculum.
Blair said:
Wow, that’s a lot for TK students. Did the school offer any more explanation beyond inclusivity?
Sounds like they’re sidestepping the issue. Have you thought about taking it up with the district?
California schools tend to focus on inclusivity, so if it’s not part of formal lessons, it might not be breaking any rules.
Beckett said:
California schools tend to focus on inclusivity, so if it’s not part of formal lessons, it might not be breaking any rules.
That’s what I’m trying to figure out. It just feels like too much for their age group.
Beckett said:
California schools tend to focus on inclusivity, so if it’s not part of formal lessons, it might not be breaking any rules.
You might want to look into the district’s guidelines to see if there are limits on classroom materials.
It’s important to speak up about what’s appropriate for TK students. Parents should absolutely have a say in this.
SarahBrown said:
It’s important to speak up about what’s appropriate for TK students. Parents should absolutely have a say in this.
Exactly. I just want to make sure this isn’t happening to other kids unchallenged.
SarahBrown said:
It’s important to speak up about what’s appropriate for TK students. Parents should absolutely have a say in this.
You’re not alone. A lot of parents feel schools are introducing these topics too early.
Did other parents raise concerns too? A group complaint might carry more weight with the school or district.
Morgan said:
Did other parents raise concerns too? A group complaint might carry more weight with the school or district.
Yes, a few parents have shared similar concerns. We might try addressing it together.
Morgan said:
Did other parents raise concerns too? A group complaint might carry more weight with the school or district.
That’s a good idea. Schools often respond better when there’s collective feedback from parents.
If you’ve already withdrawn your child, are you considering filing a formal complaint about the situation?
KushTracy said:
If you’ve already withdrawn your child, are you considering filing a formal complaint about the situation?
I’ve thought about it. I just want to approach it the right way.
KushTracy said:
If you’ve already withdrawn your child, are you considering filing a formal complaint about the situation?
You could also consult with an education lawyer to see if there are any violations you can act on.