I’ve been trying to keep my twins in the same classroom, but the school went ahead and separated them anyway. I mentioned California Education Code 37617, which says siblings should stay together unless a parent requests otherwise or one is in special ed. The principal said it doesn’t apply because the school isn’t year-round. Anyone know if there’s a similar rule for regular schools? Feeling stuck here.
Ugh, that’s so frustrating! Did they give you any real reason for the split? Or just making things up as they go?
Morgan said:
Ugh, that’s so frustrating! Did they give you any real reason for the split? Or just making things up as they go?
They just keep saying it’s better for the kids’ ‘growth and success.’ No testing or anything, just their take on it.
Morgan said:
Ugh, that’s so frustrating! Did they give you any real reason for the split? Or just making things up as they go?
Wow, that’s vague. Did you ask them to explain how they decided it was ‘better’ for your kids?
I’m confused—what does EC 37617 actually say? Is it just for year-round schools?
Freddie said:
I’m confused—what does EC 37617 actually say? Is it just for year-round schools?
Yeah, it’s for year-round schools. It says siblings should stay in the same group unless parents ask otherwise.
Freddie said:
I’m confused—what does EC 37617 actually say? Is it just for year-round schools?
Bummer it doesn’t cover regular schools. Do you know if there’s anything similar for traditional schedules?
Honestly, emotional distress is a big deal. Have you told them about your son’s reaction to being separated?
Lennon said:
Honestly, emotional distress is a big deal. Have you told them about your son’s reaction to being separated?
Yeah, I told them. My son had a major meltdown on day one—crying, running out of the room, the whole thing.
Lennon said:
Honestly, emotional distress is a big deal. Have you told them about your son’s reaction to being separated?
That’s rough. You should document everything. It might help if you escalate this later.
Have you thought about taking this up with the district? They might be more willing to listen than the school.
Brook said:
Have you thought about taking this up with the district? They might be more willing to listen than the school.
Not yet, but I’m considering it. I feel like the principal isn’t taking me seriously.
Brook said:
Have you thought about taking this up with the district? They might be more willing to listen than the school.
It’s worth a shot. Worst case, they ignore you too, but sometimes the district steps in to smooth things over.
Maybe you could try a meeting with a child advocate? They’re good at making schools take parents seriously.
Milo said:
Maybe you could try a meeting with a child advocate? They’re good at making schools take parents seriously.
That’s a good idea. I’ve never worked with one before, but it might be worth looking into.
Milo said:
Maybe you could try a meeting with a child advocate? They’re good at making schools take parents seriously.
They’re super helpful. If you don’t know where to start, try looking up local resources or asking at the district office.