Is finding love at 31 too late

I haven’t sorted out my life, so I didn’t plan to date before. I’m unsure if I should focus on my career or try dating now. Things have changed a lot, and sometimes it feels like dating doesn’t make sense now.

Too late? Not at all. You can work and date at the same time. When you meet someone special, you won’t want to let them go. If they are right for you, they will support you and help you reach your goals. They would do this because they know you would support them too.

Same here. I decided to focus on my work after some bad relationships. Then I fell in love with a good friend. He’s everything to me. I was worried I wouldn’t find someone who understands my busy work life. I also worried about my income and being a homeowner. But my partner doesn’t mind, he’s proud and supportive. If I work late, he cooks and does the dishes. I think about him all the time. He texts me during the day to say he loves me and misses me. We have a great and supportive relationship. Whenever I thank him, he says he does it because he loves me and knows I would do the same for him. He’s right, I always help him when he needs it.

Is it too late for you? If it is, then I have no hope.

I’m 34 years old and female.

So…

I will be 33 soon. I’m very focused on my career. I still hope to find the right person. :pray:

I’m 31 female too, single with 3 kids, and studying for my bachelor’s in Psychology. It’s never too late or too early. Follow your own path, ignore others, and be happy😍

Are you planning to get a master’s degree afterwards?

I plan to, but we’ll see. Taking it one step at a time✨

I mention this because a bachelor’s in Psychology can be tough.

I completely agree😢

Yeah, I got a bachelor’s in Psychology in 2010… honestly, a high school diploma would have been better.

I saw the phrase ‘live in your timeline’ before leaving and had to say I love it - it’ll stay with me now.

I feel dating apps have changed dating and meeting people in person, but don’t give up.

No, it’s not too late. If you want a partner, it just takes time, effort, and some luck. You can focus on your career and date at the same time.

It’s never too late. You’ll always find people your age, no matter how old you are. So, it’s never too late.

Go to school to improve yourself and meet someone along the way. Often, just attending classes is enough. Even working can help you meet people.

Not at all. Life starts after 30.

There’s no point in giving up. It’s better to try and fail until luck comes or to keep trying than to give up.

To answer your second question, you can do both. It will be hard, but it’s worth the effort.

I think it’s not too late. I’m 30 male and not giving up.

I’m also 31 female and don’t feel like I have my life sorted. I’m studying Psychology but haven’t been working since May because finding a job in my city is hard.

I have a wonderful boyfriend who has supported me through tough times. It is not too late for you.